How the Chubby Teens are Coming in the Sexual Fantasies

 Sex therapists believe that a person is fully prepared for sex life by the age of 18-19, since it is by this time that the structure of the adult psyche is formed. Doctors believe that a teenager is able to suffer up to this age, otherwise he may get an inferiority complex, problems in sex as early as adult life, and it sometimes happens that it’s absolutely impossible to build a full-fledged relationship and start a family. Be it the free teen porn or the sexual acts, the processes are always there. [show_more more='Read More' less='Read Less']  Psychological factors, not hormones, push the sex life of a teenager: the influence of society, that is, information from the surrounding space and the influence of peers. Boys at such a young age need only the process itself, while girls want affection and attention, that is, relationships. Therefore, the guys, having got what they want, most often leave the girls and go to the next partner. For girls, this gap is a great disappointment and a reason to worry. Boys, in turn, can get psychological trauma due to their sexual failure, because they cannot control their body - hormones do not allow and if a girl, because of this, starts teasing or mocking a partner and comparing it with her previous partners? And if, by virtue of her discreetness, she begins to talk about this to her peers, then the guy will have serious stress, even fear of women in adulthood. Girls, when they are abandoned for the sake of others, cease to believe in normal relations with the opposite sex - and this can also spread to adulthood. Apparently, it can still be said that this phenomenon, the sexual life of adolescents, is a risk factor for the health of the young generation, that is, our children.

Is it possible to prevent this phenomenon?

The age from 13.5 to 18 years, when the onset of sexual activity in adolescents is observed, corresponds to the transformation of the structure of the psyche of an adolescent into the structure of the psyche of an adult. Teens solve many problems of growing up, including overcoming their teenage traits. They search for themselves by trying different types of activities, within which they change themselves to become a person, an adult. In other words, a teenager after 13.5 years, as it were, turns on the “internal engine”, and he strives to become such an adult, the qualities of which correspond to his ideas about it. By 13.5 years, the adolescent almost fully develops the image of the “I-ideal”, in which he places the features and qualities of an adult that he would like to possess, which seem to him necessary in his future life, for example, confident, authoritative. In order for these traits to appear in his “I-ideal”, they must be generally recognized and not be in doubt. These personality traits can cause admiration in a teenager, amaze him with delight, interest or simply emotionally touch, for example, such as courage, perseverance, dedication, honesty. The criterion for the completion of the process of maturation is the approximation of the qualities of the personality of the adolescent to the qualities “I am ideal”. This is the time when they become adults, that is, capable of being responsible for everything around, including for themselves. Of course, in the ideal image of a teenager there is such an attribute as sexuality. At all times, this area of ​​life attracted teenagers, attracted by its closeness. In an effort to become adults, they try to try out this activity as well: in order to gain experience and learn what it is, and also to be “not worse” than their peers. Of course, in their “I-ideal” there is usually the following - “an adult has sex”, maybe that's why they are trying to do this, and the ban on it has been lifted in our time. Parents can be recommended to influence a teenager at the stage of formation of his “I-ideal” and make the necessary adjustments to his ideas about intimate relationships, so that his “I-ideal” would have the following statement:

Among the Humans

In humans, a full-fledged intimate relationship begins with 18-19 years, that is, when his psyche becomes the psyche of an adult. And how can this be done in reality? It is necessary to convey to him, emotionally, in order to be perceived, knowledge of the dangers to which they will be exposed if they begin to have sex at an early age. This is what was said earlier: slowing or stopping growth; emerging difficulties in learning, as the forces for intellectual activity are reduced; the spread of genital infections, the possibility of becoming pregnant, as well as the risk of psychological trauma and even the loss of the possibility of having children. [/show_more]