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 The erotic fantasies are an excellent starting engine of desire and sexual excitement. Sometimes they have the form of images, of small red light films for "personal use". For the Ebony teen porn this whole thing can turn perfect now. [show_more more='Read More' less='Read Less']  They can be intentionally recalled to increase the excitement itself, during a love act or masturbation, or they can come suddenly, leaving us surprised and sometimes even upset, above all, when to the imagination is added the component of the forbidden, even inner prohibition. At first glance, erotic fantasies may seem paradoxical. If we observe them closely, we actually discover that in them we tend to live what in our daily life remains in the shade and that we tend to compensate in that way. So, to be clear, those in life have many responsibilities, including work, dreams, for example, to be subdued by a woman or a dominant man; the janitor of being a rich businessman who has at his feet various irresistible women; the most extreme feminist to be taken strongly; the husband of a brunette with big breasts imagines a blonde with small breasts, and so on.. The various serological researches, from the 80s onwards, have widely revealed the contents of the most common erotic fantasies between men and women. For men : making love with a partner different from their own; to make and receive oral sex; make love with two women or watch them as they flirt with each other; have an adventure with a stranger; raping a prostitute; make a couple exchange; make love with a pregnant woman; having group sex; being "enslaved" and subdued by a woman. For women, the most recurring fantasies emerged are: being taken strongly or submissively; to make and receive oral sex; make love with another woman; make love with two men; exchange the partner; go around without slip; have more orgasms and in different ways; to seduce a man in front of his woman; do something forbidden and in unusual places; have an adventure with a black man or remember previous experiences. What we imagine is not always part of what we would like to put into practice in our sexuality: it is here that we find the difference between what belongs to the narrowest sphere of desire, from what remains most in the mental sphere of fantasy.

The Simplification

To simplify, we "insiders", we tend to distinguish fantasies in three categories: 1. those that identify with a specific desire, which one wants to realize and act in one's life; 2. those that closely touch it, and that under certain conditions of protection and security, one would like to explore; 3. those obsessive fantasies (fortunately extremely reduced in percentage) that in some cases recall a traumatic event, in an attempt to rework it and overcome it. The erotic imagery with the Ebony teen porn is an important indicator of psychosexual well-being, so much so that those who specialize in sexology often use it to support individuals and couples to overcome any sexual dysfunction present (not organic), such as: the decline in desire, erectile dysfunction (1 man in 5, - an increasingly frequent phenomenon even among under- 40s); premature ejaculation (2 to 4 out of 10); female anorgasmia (2 out of 10 women). It still happens too often, however, that sexual fantasies are experienced with feelings of guilt and shame. Especially when the subject of the imagination is not made up of one's partner.

Researches

Research and good clinical practices show, on the contrary, that the longer a relationship is lasting, the more partners need to resort to "divergent” fantasies, with a protagonist of his own fantasy different from his own. Studies and scientific research, related to sexual imagery, show that, with the end of the falling-in-love phase, even after 2 years of cohabitation or stable couples, there is a tendency to "replace " sometimes one's boyfriend, the his partner with the unknown, the actress, the neighbor ... The reasons are physiological. Changing partners in their fantasies is not a betrayal. It only serves to keep the desire burning, to "put some pepper" in one's relationship and to preserve the couple itself. If both partners are trapped in a monotonous sexual routine, sharing their erotic fantasies can help: make one another or the other of their erotic universe more aware; to liven up the relationship; create new foundations in terms of complicity and play, and rekindle the ardor of the past. When the phase of ' falling in love ends physiologically, the desire to transgress spontaneously emerges, to explore some of those fantasies that appear with greater insistence. For modesty, embarrassment or shame of being misjudged by the other, it is silent. The erotic-sexual relationship enters a stalemate, with some knock-on effects on the couple's relationship, which gradually wears off. The vitality of the couple flattens out. The need arises to resort to the outside, in secret, and find a lover to experience what the couple cannot live and achieve.

What to do then?

The first step is to admit to yourself that you have sexual fantasies, legitimate in themselves, regardless of whether you want to do them. “Saying yes ", accepting one's desires and winning one's own taboo are a challenge that requires courage. Then proceed with sharing, first with someone and then with your partner In counseling, it is often discovered that fantasies, which are experienced individually, can actually be common and similar. This becomes a great and precious opportunity to ensure that the relationship is once again cemented into complicity, finding new, pleasant and fertile playgrounds together. The final step is to put them into practice , thus avoiding that the person, in the long run, feels "split" between mind and body, with the unpleasant consequences (all too frequent) to resort to the outside, to satisfy their needs, but betraying the partner and the "contract of respect" that has been signed with you / him. The ways to realize fantasies go from "let the chance create the occasions", to create "frames”, in which you choose and establish the time, place, and screenplay (a sort of script of the erotic encounter). This, at the beginning, helps to give a certain clarity of the “boundaries " within which the game can take place, in respect of oneself and of the other, returning to live in a more complete, authentic and total: one 's own needs and the relationship with each other.

Some tasty ideas

You can proceed in stages, acquiring "trust" among you in this new field of exploration. Recover what's already at your fingertips. Once you have created the atmosphere you want to experience, with lights, music and clothing chosen ad hoc (corsetry, lingerie, garter belt, etc. ..), let yourself be inspired and guided by all this makes you awaken the senses of taste, smell, of touch. Bend the partner, to close his window on the world and facilitate it in its ability to abandon and resort to food (chocolate, novella, honey, fruit, etc.), to ice , to a few drops of wax melted by a candle, having fun alternating with suspense, kisses, clamps on the body, caresses and touches more energetic and daring and let him taste once and for all what you have reserved for him / her; to role-playing games: the pupil and the teacher; the priest and the nun; the prostitute and the client in a massage center; the plumber and the housewife; strangers who meet by chance; the king / queen with her slave girl; the nurse and the patient; being kidnapped; domination and submission; At table games with prizes and penalties, in exchange for ... clothes that are pulled out, a certain type of sexual pleasure that one wants to satisfy; To the treasure hunt, with which you scatter the room of notes where you will describe all that spicy that you will do or will receive, in a synthetic and precise way ("now I will tie your wrists ...” etc. ...) to sex toys, housewares (sponges of different intensities, fur collars, brushes, brushes, clothes pegs, etc. ..) or bought at the sex shop, maybe chosen together or the result of a surprise gift and anything that triggers your desire for transgression and pleasure... …Have fun! [/show_more]